he's just not that into you

I went to watch the movie "he's just not that into you" the other day. i think it should have been named "he's just not into you," without the 'that' but anyways. It was a weird movie. I thought it was okay but at the same time I don't think many people will like it just because its so subject specific. but then again i can be wrong.

It was kinda like a comedy with a twist of drama. oddly enough it made me shed a tear haha.. im so lame. nah but .. i think its because it got me thinking. why is it that we sometimes spend sooo much time in a relationship with a guy.. 3 years, 5 years or more, we expect it to be forever and things just dont go as planned??...

I dont know. My last relationship was long, I think.. well, almost 4 years. At some point I thought that was the person I was goin to marry and start a family with.. is that stupid?.. I mean.. after over a year, a girl can have expectations, no?.. things did not work out and the people closest to me know why. That's not important, the point is that we don't know why things happen, but they do. I'm just confused and wish I knew for a fact that I was doing okay and on the right track.. but I guess only time will tell.

A friend once told me.. "trust me, if you haven't married the guy after 4 years, you guys are NOT going to get married" I guess she was right...